Veteran Nollywood actress and filmmaker Omoni Oboli has shared insights into the success of her 24-year marriage to her husband, Nnamdi Oboli, attributing its longevity to a mutual decision to eliminate divorce as an option from the outset.
Speaking in an interview with media personality Chude Jideonwo, Oboli revealed that the couple made a conscious choice before their 2000 wedding to stay committed no matter the challenges. “From day one, we decided that divorce was not an option—even before we got married,” she said.
She emphasized that sustaining a long-term marriage requires a firm decision and a deep willingness to forgive. “There’s almost nothing someone can do that you can’t forgive, if you want to forgive. We all have to realize that we’re all sinners,” she added.
Oboli admitted that the first year of their marriage was turbulent, largely due to the speed of their relationship. Nnamdi proposed just two weeks after they met, and the couple tied the knot four months later. “I was young. Till today, I don’t know how I agreed to marry him so quickly. But I know I fell in love with the way my husband loved me,” she said.
Despite the early challenges, she said their predetermined commitment helped them weather the difficult moments.
The actress also connected her personal story to her latest film, After a Night in July, which she says reflects aspects of her real-life relationship.
In a post promoting the film, she wrote: “After a Night in July is so special to me because parts of it mirror my real life. My husband proposed two weeks in, and we married four months later! Our first year was turbulent, but we chose love. If you’re married or intend to marry, you’ll learn, laugh, and love.”
Oboli’s remarks have sparked renewed discussions on marriage, forgiveness, and the importance of intentional commitment in relationships.
